
Yesterday morning, I noticed that a filling had come out on my very back molar on the upper left side of my mouth. So today, I went to a new dentists office by my house. I will admit that since getting my braces on, I have not been in for a cleaning but planned on getting one today, in addition getting the cavity refilled.
One girl takes x-rays, no big deal. The hygienist comes in and poked around my gums again (it felt like a prick by each tooth) and each poke caused bleeding. She kept saying "5" "5" "5" along with some strange dentist code that I didn't understand. The "5" I found out through a Google search has something to do with gums and mm's. Above 3 = periodontal disease. Um, WHAT?!
I had once been given a mouthwash by another dentist to use for swollen gums and gingivitis. Now apparently I need a deep cleaning which completely freaks me out. The dentist told me that at 21 years old, I shouldn't be needing then and "What will happen in 10 years?" Now I'm bugging out that I'm going to lose my teeth.
I want to cry. I am so happy with how my teeth are turning out because of having braces. I thought I was finally getting the smile I always wanted and now this gets sprung on me. My mom thinks he's money hungry and I will admit the place seemed a little off somehow. I can't put my finger on it. The dentists office advertises itself as gentle and empathetic and yet I found the dentist making me feel bad about my teeth, and about myself.
My orthodontist always has his assistants check hygiene and he checks as well. There was one time a few visits ago when he told me to brush a little better but other than that, he never said anything to me. He always tells me things are looking good! If I really have periodontal disease, wouldn't he have noticed too? It strikes me as one of those things that would be obvious, right?
Both the dentist and hygienist pointed out that my gums were swollen. Isn't some degree of that to be expected when your teeth are shifting about? I feel like some sort of irritation is normal, right?
I didn't even have the dentist replace the filling because he kept saying that he wanted me to do a deep cleaning first; one day the left side, and fix the cavity - and the next day the right side.
I'm not happy at all right now. I'm upset, confused, and scared.
