leager2000, wow, such progress! It is amazing to see isn't it?
Fellow (big) gapper here!(well, it is gone now)
It is so nice to see some people who shared some of the same life experiences as me because of the gap. Cliche thing to say, but it
does make me feel less alone.
My closest friends and family never ever commented on my teeth unless I brought it up and my parents never suggested braces because they, like most parents I guess, thought it was just part of me and made me special (like that is the thing I want to be special for!). It wasn't until my mother, who wears a partial plate, lost a tooth in the front of her's and had to walk around like that for a week until she could get into see her denturist. She was so embarrassed and I said "Mom. How do you think I feel? I have been walking around like that for 19 years?" and she said "if you want to fix it, we'll make an appointment"
Well nothing really happened until I realized life was passing me, and I pin pointed one of the fixable things I could do to boost my self esteem. I saw an orthodontist and bam! Best decision I have ever made, despite the problems I am having now. I simply feel happier to be able to laugh with my mouth open and not be afraid of talking to new people who, as it was said here, were not looking me in the eyes but at my mouth.
So congratulations for deciding to do something about it rather than sit by passivly. You have beautiful looking teeth and I am sure they are going to be bonkers amazing in the end
About the frenectomy. I am an invisalign patient and after reading Lily's story I was expecting swelling and pain around aligner 7-9 and never got any permanent pain. Though, at this aligner, number 18 there is quite a bump of tissue above my two front teeth from the frenum being pushed up- though there is no pain really. I also notice that(I am being so bad this set!) if I leave them out for longer than an hour I can notice the gap opening up slightly so I will have to get that taken care of. I am making an appointment this week at my dentist's to get it done. After, I will let you know how my experience was.
A bit off topic, sorry!
Lilypad wrote:WOW! Lots of progress, you must be thrilled! Yea, it hurts moving those front teeth but......sooooo worth it.

Surprisingly, with the size of my gap, my front teeth never really hurt. I remember only a handful of times that they were a bit sore to eat hard food. I must have just been lucky, though can't say the sames about the bottoms which had more severe pain and no gap. Go figure!