Ouch! That doesn't sound fun AT ALL! You poor thing! I bet you're glad you got that out of the way before it got even worse.I had to have a dodgy shadow looked into before I got started on my orthodontic work. It was just over my capped front tooth. Apparently, when the cap went on when I was ten years old a little bundle of bacteria had got in and had been imprisoned ever since. Then, when I was in my 20s they suddenly decided to make a fuss and all kinds of weird stuff happened (a little white blister appeared on my gum etc) I was totally perplexed and couldn't afford the dentist as I was at uni. Anyway, eventually got it sorted when I left uni- the dentist had to dig into my gum and scoop all the nasty things out. EWWWWW.
Your teeth look beautiful, especially after you had them evened out (although, to be honest, I think they looked great before as well) Good luck with the rest of your treatment- I will keep checking in to see how you're getting on. Take care
Isn't it funny how the first things we as individuals notice about ourselves are the last things other people notice? If you were to ask me 19 months ago, I'd say the worst thing were my top two front teeth and the ridges on them...and other people don't even notice them!
KK thank you! And thank you for keeping up with my progress. You truly are an inspiration to me to try and keep upbeat because you have handled yourself so well.
MommaDucky Said:
Well, first off, thank you for reading my thread, MommaDucky! It's no mean feat, that's 18 pages we're talking about.jennandtonic: I just caught up on your posts... it took me a while, but I did it!!!
First off- your progress is amazing. Your story is inspiring, and it was great to read. You've obviously overcome a lifetime of obstacles and you've worked your way through to doing what is right for you! You really should be proud of yourself for all your hard work.
Secondly- upon reading through the last 18 months of your journey in quick succession, I found several posts where you seemed absolutely sick of having braces. What I'm wondering is, how do you get yourself through those times? For me, I've been in braces for just under three months, and I'm pleased to say that at this point, I haven't felt totally tired of them... yet. I'm sure that once I've been wearing them for quite some time, and my progress starts to slow, I'll begin having some of those days. Is there anything you do that helps see you to the end of the day when you start feeling down about it? All I can think to do (whenever this starts happening to me) is that I'll just have to reassure myself that this is the right choice, and I should be happy that it only takes two years to be able to enjoy the rest of my life with a beautiful smile, etc. But for me, I've found that I don't necessarily respond well to self-affirmations..... I guess I just want to prepare myself for what is (almost inevitably) to come!
Again, you've made beautiful progress, and I'm sure it will feel like no time at all and you'll be finding yourself in that dentist's chair getting those suckers taken off for good!
Hoping you are well.
Self affirmations, no matter how many times I try them, never work for me, either so you are definitely not alone in that.
I think reading this site, there are quite a few 'cheerful' braces wearers. Always completely content to have them. And while, most of the time that's me too, every few months--sometimes, every setback, I'm not so jolly about it.
Honestly, what gets me through is I start trying to think or concentrate on something else other than myself. Because a lot of times when I get to that point--being sick of having them, all I'm thinking of is 'me-me-me-me. Why me, poor me,' which is, well, kind of selfish, at least when I let myself indulge like that. So when I catch myself looking at my teeth in the mirror thinking 'god, I hate these,' I immediately get away from mirrors, go do other things that don't involve me thinking about myself. I volunteer on occasion, I do homework, I read, I put on the music really loud, I turn on a movie, I call a friend or a member of my family, I try and do things for others. I find that it tends to help build self-confidence in the general sense, and it gets me to stop thinking about my braces. In other words: DISTRACT YOURSELF, and shamelessly.

If all else fails, though, another thing that helps is my progress pictures, and this progress thread. When I look at how my teeth were versus how they look now, I'm amazed at the progress I have made and I'm not so 'oh, woe is me!' about them.
Miss Smiley I'm a little better because I realize, right now, there's not much I can do until I go see a dentist about it. And, in the end, we'll figure out what's going on.
Thank you everyone for your kind comments!
