I've had incredible luck with my work and personal life these past 2 years, and I'm much more financially stable now

She's a bit afraid of dental work, so I'm also hoping to encourage her into regular dental visits. I can't recall her ever going to the dentist, and her beautiful teeth have shifted and changed a lot over the years, and have been giving her occasional pain. It worries me. And I know she wishes she had the same smile she use to. I saved enough so that she can visit a dentist and an ortho if she wants to, but I don't want her to feel negative about the past and our dental care taking a backseat. She's done her absolute best to raise a happy and healthy family and is an outstanding mom. Maybe we can go to my brace fitting together so she can see how it's done

Alright! So my first ortho consult was 3 days ago, and wow was it surreal! I felt like Homer Simpson in the Land of Chocolate! I think the tune kept playing in my mind while the dental assistant took my photos and x-rays, just felt really exciting lol! Both the assistant and the orthodontist's comments when looking at my teeth for the first time was "this is going to be a very difficult case!" I knew it was going to be, but not for the reasons he mentioned. This is what he briefly discussed with me:
-My deep overbite
-Cross bite on both eyeteeth
-Bone loss in an area on my lowers where one tooth was extracted (I don't remember why), and one beside it never had an adult tooth grow in
-A tooth on the uppers had slowly started dipping into the extraction side below it
-A tooth missing on my uppers that would cause alignment issues; this really concerned him
-An impacted wisdom tooth on the lowers
-A very large root canal on the back tooth infront of the impacted wisdom tooth; this concerned him too
-Very small laterals, with one being a peg lateral
-A gummy smile
-Lots of spacing
He mentioned that I would need jaw surgery if I wanted something done about my gummy smile, but it truly doesn't bother me so I will not be having surgery. He also asked if the large gap where the bone loss occurred bothered me, but it really does not. He said I have the option of getting an implant or a bridge in the future and I agreed.
The bigger issues so far is the missing tooth in my uppers, my peg lateral, and the tooth dipping into the bone loss space. I'm extremely glad that he wants to do everything he can to not have to extract any teeth; I feel like I don't have much to work with as it is! He also said that the deep bite and cross bites will be easy to fix with braces.
After the consultation (photos, x-rays, notes, and discussion took about an hour or so), he said he needed more time to plan a course of action and scheduled another appointment in two weeks. Since I recently moved to the area, he also recommended me a dentist (the same dentist I was going to schedule an appointment with!), and said he'd ask them to give me a call to set a date for cleaning before the next ortho visit. This makes me happy because things area finally starting to roll!
Photos will paint a better picture so I'll post some in a moment! The camera battery died